Friday, May 30, 2014

Saying Grace

From a recent acquisition, A Grateful Heart:  Daily Blessings for the Evening Meal from Buddha to the Beatles


A Prayer for the Children... by Ina J. Hughes

We pray for the children
who put chocolate fingers everywhere,
who like to be tickled,
who stomp in puddles and ruin their new pants, who sneak Popsicles before supper,
who erase holes in math workbooks,
who can never find their shoes.

And we pray for those
who stare at photographers from behind barbed wire, who’ve never squeaked across the floor in new sneakers, who never had crayons to count,
who are born in places we wouldn’t be caught dead, who never go to the circus,
who live in an X-rated world.

We pray for children
who bring us sticky kisses and fistfuls of dandelions, who sleep with the dog and bury goldfish,
who give hugs in a hurry and forget their lunch money, who cover themselves with Band-Aids and sing off-key, who squeeze toothpaste all over the sink,
who slurp their soup.

And we pray for those
who never get dessert,
who watch their parents watch them die, who have no safe blanket to drag behind, who can’t find any bread to steal,
who don’t have any rooms to clean up, whose pictures aren’t on anybody’s dresser, whose monsters are real.

We pray for children
who spend all their allowance before Tuesday,
who throw tantrums in the grocery store and pick at their food, who like ghost stories,
who shove dirty clothes under the bed,
who never rinse out the tub,
who get visits from the tooth fairy,
who don't like to be kissed in front of the school,
who squirm in church or temple or mosque
and scream in the phone,
whose tears we sometimes laugh at and whose smiles can make us cry.

And we pray for those
whose nightmares come in the daytime,
who will eat anything,
who aren't spoiled by anybody,
who go to bed hungry and cry themselves to sleep, who live and move, but have no being.

We pray for children who want to be carried, and for those who must.
For those we never give up on,
and for those who never get a chance.

For those we smother with our love,
and for those who will grab the hand of anybody kind enough to offer it.

Thursday, May 8, 2014

My bedtime routine

(Daily prompt from The Creative Notebook)

My evenings are full and fast.  My oldest disembarks from the bus around 4:40 p.m.  We come home, he plays for half an hour and then we wrestle over homework while I try to make dinner and keep the younger two somewhat appeased.  Dinner is generally at 6 p.m.  Kids' bath times start around 7 p.m. - Jeremy handles those when he's home while I clean up the kitchen.  I put Adelaide down between 7:30 and 8, while Jeremy puts the boys down at the same time after bath.  Once Adelaide is down and the boys are in their beds, I sing to Graham while stroking his head, then rub Gideon's back for a few minutes.  Hopefully, all of the dishes have been done by this point, so I can plop myself down on the couch and laugh at a favorite show or two with Jeremy.

I head upstairs around 9:30 for my bath (not shower); I like to read in the bathtub.  I push through brushing teeth and taking vitamins afterwards, then slide into bed and read until my eyes can't stay open anymore, which is about 5 minutes.  I turn out the light and usually slide off into sleep effortlessly - these days, I can't tell you what runs through my mind after the light goes off.  Not much.  The restlessness usually comes later in the night, after a baby feeding, when I worry about the oldest's attention span and social development and curse myself for yelling too much the day before.

The nights are pretty routine and set in stone, even if they are still overfilled with yelling on my part.  The mornings continue to be a challenge.


Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Tradition and Memory

Jeremy, July 1975 (2 months)
Gideon, March 2007 (3 months)

Graham, April 2012 (4 months)
Adelaide, May 2014 (2 months)





Monday, May 5, 2014

Five things that really make me happy...

(daily prompt from The Creative Notebook)

1.  Being able to have the windows open in the house.
2.  Nap time.
3.  My boys laughing and playing together while I cook dinner.
4.  De-cluttering.
5.  A delicious dinner out with my husband and a glass of wine.

Saturday, May 3, 2014

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Boston in a Day with Kids

We'll be heading to Maine this summer for our beach vacation and will be taking a couple of days to get there and back.  We're considering a day stopover in a metropolitan area, like NYC or Boston.  This is what we'll do if it's Boston.

Derived from IndependentTraveler.com's "Taking the Kids:  Three Days in Boston"

Boston Duck Tour
Faneuil Hall Marketplace & Quincy Market
Boston Common and Public Garden
Regina Pizzeria
Boston Children's Museum or New England Aquarium
Family-friendly Pub

and Jeremy just said,

"Sam Adams Brewery is on your list, right?"

Sunday, April 27, 2014

Saturday morning games

Saturday morning, I sat on the floor of our reading room, cradling our two-month-old daughter with my right arm as she nursed, holding down the yellow Connect 4 launcher while Graham loaded and launched yellow rings from it and Gideon sat catty-corner from us launching red rings from his launcher.  There was no way of capturing that moment with a photo, but it's that kind of moment that I hope remains etched in my memory for a lifetime, that I'll always see those small children inside the adults they become.   And I hope that kind of memory is equally as sweet to them in their adulthood.




Thursday, April 24, 2014

Prayer for In-Laws

Courtesy of Jennifer at unveiledwife.com:

"Dear God,
You have made the family unit so unique and there are so many different kinds of relationships we have, thank you for them all! Thank you especially for in-laws. Please help us to understand our in-laws and the relationship that they have with our spouse. Holy Spirit please guide our actions towards our in-laws and help us love them just as Jesus would. We pray for the in-laws who may not have a healthy relationship with their children and interrupt the marriage that you have brought together. Please divinely intervene and help in-laws to see that their child is no longer their responsibility and help their children see that their spouse is now their responsibility. We pray for wives who feel negative judgment or inadequacy because of treatment from in-laws and ask that you redeem their relationship. Give wives strength, sense of worthiness and the righteous way to respond. Thank you Lord! AMEN!"

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Graham's First 2 Years

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Tuesday, April 22, 2014

A Mother's Prayer

O Lord, Who taught Monica to persevere for the good of her family, help me to be a better parent to my children. Help me to have patience with them when they misbehave and give me the strength to guide them gently to the right path. Permit me always to forgive their misdeeds and keep me from speaking harshly or punishing unwisely. Please help me to be a beacon of goodness for them as they grow to adulthood and to be a good example to them in all that I say and do. Amen. (from www.2heartsnetwork.org)

My custom-made St. Monica eco-collage from Laima at Artweeds (and here)